THERAPY FOR THOSE FACING PERINATAL LOSS IN SANTA ROSA, CA
Crossing the threshold from panic to presence.
Helping you find your ground, find your voice, and rise from the ashes
You have come to a threshold…
On the outside, it looks like all is well in your life. You have worked hard, and built a solid life.
But the old ways of holding it together are not holding up. A big loss, a miscarriage, burnout and exhaustion are causing life to buckle at the seams.
Sometimes these are the moments we see most clearly through the fog- something new is needed. Support for this deep place.
The road can be so long…
It's not just a loss. It's the unraveling of so many hopes. You’ve fought so hard to get here. Appointments. Injections. Waiting.
The fertility journey can take everything—your time, your body, your heart. And when a miscarriage happens after so much effort and hope, it can feel unbearable.
Not just the grief, but the exhaustion of trying to hope again.
You don’t need to be hopeful right now.
You need room to grieve.
To feel sorrow, anger, hopelessness.
This is part of healing.
Even if the world can’t see it, you are still a mother, a parent.
Even if your arms are empty. Even if your hope is gone for now.
The love you have for this child, for this beginning, is real and matters so much. Their life, though brief, is so important.
This journey transforms us, makes us deeper, our hearts broken but stronger.
You deserve support for the ache, for the sleepless nights, for the anxiety that comes with such a deep path.
You have an unspoken sorrow…
Hi, I’m Jessica.
I’m here to help you cross the threshold into a wholeness that allows you to breathe, live and connect with life right now.
I am passionate about helping people with their loss, particularly the tender, unique loss of a baby. I am here for your process of descent, holding a lantern as you enter the territory underneath, as you face the shadows, the fears, the sorrows that allow a re-birth into a meaningful, bold life.
You have carried so much on your own, more than your share. You deserve support as you enter this next phase, of picking up the pieces, of making meaning of this life and death, and reclaiming your fullness. Even if that means room for your broken heart.
I offer deep presence, weaving together lived experience with infant loss, trauma therapy such as brainspotting to help you process what’s been buried, and depth work to honor the transformation that comes with tender love and grief. We will find ground in your grief, soften your shame about your sorrow, and build pathways of safety—so you can live with more wholeness, more voice, more heart.
Specialties
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Perinatal Loss
I offer a safe space for the very deep process of loving and missing the child that you don’t get to hold in your arms, the pregnancy that ended too soon. We will create “holdfasts” for you to anchor into grounding during this time in the dark, and find ways to befriend this place of such loss, so you can keep loving them, and living fully.n goes here
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Grief Work
Feel more whole and supported as you reclaim the heart, relief and love that comes with the flow of grief. You no longer have to reject the sad parts of you that hold wisdom and depth. In our work, we honor the descent and the importance of this territory.
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Trauma Healing
Feel present, safe and grounded, able to connect with your partner, your friends, your kids, and unbound from the triggers that take over your body and mind. With Brainspotting, depth work, and the Safe and Sound Protocol, we make room for your body, heart and nervous system to find safety and connection.
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Teens
Your teen can find security, self-love and understanding for what they are facing, whether that is the drama of middle school and high school, or an intense loss. We build trust in our session, and a place for them to find their voice.
Facing loss doesn’t mean you are lost.
I help you find ground, keep loving, and embrace your transformation.
HOW IT WORKS
Reach out
Get to Work
Find Your Ground
Email or call to set up a free 20 minute consultation on phone or video, and if we are a good fit, we book our first appointment. (fill out form below)
We will book a regular session time and create a plan for your healing process, and begin this journey of transformation.
You find more wholeness, living a life that includes the depths, includes joy, a sense of safety, connection to yourself and your loved ones as you walk this path and face what needs tending,
Schedule a Consultation
My office is located in downtown Santa Rosa, CA and I am seeing people in person as well as virtually.
If you are ready to cross the threshold into safety, connection and wholeness, please reach out and tell me the best times to schedule a consult with you. I am happy to answer any questions you have. Thank you for reaching out, I look forward to talking with you.
Email: jessica@jessicamalmberg.com
Call: (707)758-2365
