The Crisis and Courage of Pregnancy After Loss
As a therapist who works with moms navigating pregnancy after loss, I see this complexity every day. These moms are trying to hold love for the baby growing inside them while also honoring and grieving the child—or children—they will never get to raise. A crucial part of supporting these parents is helping them ground into the present moment while making space for their grief, not pushing it away.
Gathering to Grieve, Together: April 2026 Pregnancy & Infant Loss Retreat
Grieving Together, a Retreat for parents who’ve gone through pregnancy or infant loss, will be offered in April 2026 in Sebastopol, CA. This retreat and ritual is an invitation to bring your whole, broken heart and be honored for all of it’s depth and colors. We aren’t supposed to hold these losses on our own, but in community.
Facing the Holidays Without Your Child Is a Holy Thing
Facing the holidays when a child isn’t there brings depth and ache that is so important. Rather than feel we are being “a drag” for the holidays, can we honor this place as just right, as the deep sorrow that comes with tremendous love?
Going Back to Work After Infant Loss: Facing the Impossible
Returning to work, to life after a shattering loss, is incredibly difficult, and necessitates an incredible amount of support.
After Years of Trying, Miscarriage Is More Than a Loss—It’s a Breaking Point
We don’t need to walk through the dark alone. We need support, acceptance, and time for this deep path of healing and loving.
Mother’s Day for the Broken-hearted
For all of those who wake up on Mothers’ Day aching for the child who is not there, I send you love from across the ages. Love from all the mothers who have had to keep breathing after their child has stopped breathing, who have lost their bearings and their center, and slowly, slowly over lifetimes, found new feet and a new rhythm.
My Story of Loss
My story of loss, finding our way to grief and it’s life-giving dark beauty.
The Secret Garden
Working through and with grief, trauma, love, loss, life and death from a soulful perspective.
Soulful Grieving
Working through and with grief, trauma, love, loss, life and death from a soulful perspective.

